New Norm Journey

This beautiful story is about my Dad ~ written by Nessa. I just love it… even though it made me cry. If you are going through loss, you will find laughter and hope in this candid blog. Much love to everyone and especially Nessa during this challenging time.

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Three months ago today, my worst nightmare became my reality. I lost my best friend….Since that day, I’ve been on that journey everyone that has ever lost a partner must go on. Let’s see, how does it go….”Welcome to the club you never wanted to be a member of.”

In these three short (sarcasm) months, 485 projects were started, I’ve finished none…It’s like being ADHD (which I’m pretty sure I’ve always been) but on steroids…

I’ve read so many, many, many books on grief….Surely I am an expert on this subject by now…But, I’m not…Funny thing about these books….Nearly all of them say…..”whatever you do, do not make any huge financial decisions for one year.” Well….probably should have read all 1,000 of these books the very night my precious Jim died….

It’s been a weird three months….I have pushed hard to get everything done, so I could say, “okay, that’s…

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